Not Pink

Not Pink is a revolutionary shared bucket list app designed specifically for couples who want to turn their dreams into reality. Gone are the days of simply talking about experiences you want to share; Not Pink helps you and your partner collaboratively build a list of adventures that matter to you both. With a unique four-phase process—Align, Plan, Prepare, and Relive—this app ensures that every idea is mutually agreed upon, turning what could be a one-sided wishlist into a true reflection of your shared desires. Whether it's a weekend getaway, a new restaurant to try, or a life milestone, Not Pink encourages couples to engage in meaningful planning and organization. It’s perfect for couples who have moved past the honeymoon stage and want to invest time in building unforgettable memories together. Designed for real-world experiences, Not Pink syncs offline, allowing you to access your bucket list on the go.

Align

The Align feature allows couples to swipe through curated ideas and discover what they both want to experience. When both partners agree on an idea, it becomes a match, automatically adding it to their shared bucket list. This interactive and engaging process makes it fun to find common interests.

Plan

Once ideas are aligned, the Plan feature helps to transform those dreams into actionable plans. Couples can suggest dates and locations, discuss details in real-time, and keep each other updated through discussion threads. This ensures that both partners are always informed and engaged in the planning process.

Prepare

The Prepare phase is all about getting ready for the adventure. Upcoming experiences are highlighted with countdowns and preparation checklists, so couples never miss a moment. Calendar integration ensures that all plans are organized and accessible, making the lead-up to the experience as enjoyable as the experience itself.

Relive

After the adventure, the Relive feature enables couples to capture memories by uploading photos and writing reflections together. This transforms the shared bucket list into a personalized memory book, celebrating milestones and experiences that strengthen their bond.

Weekend Getaways

Imagine planning a spontaneous weekend getaway. With Not Pink, couples can quickly swipe through ideas, agree on a destination, and organize the trip in no time, ensuring they get the most out of their time together.

Romantic Dinners

Looking to spice up date night? Couples can use Not Pink to curate a list of restaurants they've always wanted to try. They can discuss and plan their culinary adventures, ensuring that every dinner is a memorable experience.

Skill-Building Together

Want to learn a new skill together? Not Pink allows couples to add activities like cooking classes or dance lessons to their bucket list. They can plan the details and prepare together, making the learning process fun and engaging.

Life Milestones

From celebrating anniversaries to planning for future family milestones, Not Pink helps couples keep track of significant life events they want to experience together. They can align their visions and create a shared timeline of memorable moments.

Can we share between phones?

Absolutely! One partner creates the bucket list and shares a code, allowing the other partner to join instantly. Everything syncs in real time across both devices, ensuring seamless collaboration.

What kind of things can we add to our bucket list?

You can add anything you dream up together! This includes weekend trips, restaurants to try, skills to learn, or life milestones. Plus, curated ideas are available to inspire your adventures.

Is our data private?

Yes, your bucket list is completely private to you and your partner. Not Pink does not share your data with third parties, ensuring your experiences remain confidential. For more details, you can read our Privacy Policy.

Do we both need the app?

Yes, both partners need to have the app installed to share and sync your bucket list. Not Pink is available on iOS through the App Store, making it easy to get started on your shared adventures.